It’s #ThinkingThursday, let’s chat about accountability and projection

In this world it is all to easy to point fingers and blame.. others, systems, even ourselves

Blame is a very powerful aspect of our ego, to protect our very being.

Our Psyches are fascinating to me!! How in order to save internal energy, cognitive biases form, which make shortcut judgements to save time and keep us safe

Biases are a great short term strategy, since learning, examining our beliefs and values takes energy, plus fear and judgements are encultured into us by family, media & institutions

However a bias makes a poor long term strategy. They create unnecessary divides, lead to burnt bridges, weakening society, leaving us more vulnerable and separate from each other, and ultimately ourselves

Humans are a social species, we’ve evolved to depend on and need each other to survive

The difficult truth is we have a part to play in every dynamic, in every relationship. There are always three sides to every story!

When we feel insecure and scared, our system is attuned to vigilance and self protection, which shuts down logic and long term planning

Judgements are a natural byproduct of abuse and neglect, yet I observe they are the basis for projections, where we cast our unconscious wounds and beliefs onto others with a finger pointed from a power-over or power-under dynamic

It’s inherently uncomfortable and unpleasant to sit in our shortcomings and mistakes, see where we err, hurt others or sabotage ourselves with accountability

It’s much easier to fall into ego, habits and distractions…

Although the inner work of personal development can be challenging, I firmly believe it’s worth it

To reflect, heal and reveal who we truly are from a cultivated sense of inner compassion, gratitude, peace & joy

Delving into this rich world is much easier in community with #TheLoveYourVibeTransformation, where we intentionally co-create space where all feel Safer, Seen, Celebrated & Supported

New groups are beginning soon, reach out for a chat to see how our system may align for you!

Your comments, questions & feedback are always welcome